Loyal, social, sweet, docile… No, these are not the characteristics of a cute dog, but those of the “new” ideal boyfriend: the Golden Retriever boyfriend. But who is he?
This term has appeared on social networks in recent months, especially under the hashtag #goldenretriverboyfriend on TikTok. In several videos, we can see women proudly filming their boyfriend who takes care of her, spends time with them, is sociable… in short, a man with all the qualities worthy of a Golden Retriever. You know this adorable and very loving dog. Behind this perfect boyfriend hides one new conception of masculinity from women and society in general. We are far from the toxic masculinity still celebrated by a certain type of guy.
The opposite of “himbo”
Nicknames like this are new, Golden Retriever girlfriend did not appear in 2024. It is just easier to identify them as such and therefore to know whether ours is this type of man or not.
The Golden Retrover lover guaranteed some stability in a romantic relationship and doing well far from the usual codes of the straight guy : virile, confident and who doesn’t really express his feelings. Today, with this new perspective, the Golden Retriever Boyfriend’s sexual orientation is no longer questioned, although some stereotypes are still very much present. In 2024, there are nuances to masculinity, so it’s not necessarily heterosexual. The Golden Retriever boyfriend is the opposite of himbothe male equivalent of bimbo, which are very physically attractive men, but that’s it.
Famous Golden Retriever Lovers
So as an example of the perfect boyfriend we have Tom Holland, in a relationship with the actress Zendaya, Travis Kelce, the famous American football player in a relationship with the singer Taylor Swift or even Sam Thompson. From an outsider’s point of view, because no one knows the intimacy of these couples, these men seem invested in their relationship without dominating their partner, just be by their side by supporting them in their personal project. And still according to TikTok science, Golden Retrover lovers are the ideal partners for Black Cat Girlfriends. Well, you have to follow along, but they are just introverted and independent women like Zendaya and Taylor Swift can be.
The dog metaphor, a classic
According to Time, various nicknames seemed to categorize men, always by dog breeds of course. Exist Rottweiler friend : a loyal and very loving lover in private, but quite the opposite in public. The boyfriend Husky : adventurous, brave and demanding and who loves outdoor activities such as camping or hiking. There is also German Shepherd Dog who is intelligent, dedicated, athletic… and who supports his partner/master in all situations.
Anyway, among all these types of boyfriends, there is definitely yours. Tell us in the comments what kind of partner you have?